Find out what your chinese name would be. That's not always as selfish as it sounds. After i wander up to him and introduce myself i am there to have my natal chart read he leads me to a little table in the back of the store and pulls a gauzy green curtain closed behind us.
Honesty and integrity will be the determining. When they feel themselves rejected, lonely or failures, or simply through feeble self-indulgence, they will find refuge in drugs or the bottle.